Patrol Family

Meet the Founders

The First Patrol Family

We run the missions on our own family, build the tools we wished existed, and put the whole thing on camera — wins, hard conversations, and all.

Below are some of the real missions we've completed together — the proof that this is a life we actually live, not a system we sell.

The founding family in traditional Thai dress at a temple, on Mother's Day.
Mother’s day photo — fit for a queen.

Formulating the Patrol Family Playbook

Some of our completed missions.

Achieve together

Missions: Excel in ballet, lemonade sales, homeschooling, and lego robotics.

Gold with distinction for ballet.
Gold with distinction for ballet.
Beaming with pride from their lemonade stand earnings.
Beaming with pride from their lemonade stand earnings.
Celebratory dinner for Lincoln's acceptance into Thaden private school.
Celebratory dinner for Lincoln's acceptance into Thaden private school.
Awarded the most innovative lego robotics team (ceremony held at the Sam's Club HQ).
Awarded the most innovative lego robotics team (ceremony held at the Sam's Club HQ).

Adventure together

Mission: Spend seven months worldschooling while dad works remotely.

Diving with two whale sharks.
Diving with two whale sharks.
Our “precious pudge” among karst mountains of China.
Our “precious pudge” among karst mountains of China.
A northern lights surprise.
A northern lights surprise.
Angkor Wat
Angkor Wat
Suffocated by an aggressive sea snail
Suffocated by an aggressive sea snail
Thai splendor
Thai splendor
Chiang Mai
Chiang Mai
Mae Hong Son Loop
Mae Hong Son Loop
Siem Reap
Siem Reap
Adventure together — photo 10
Adventure together — photo 11
Ha Long Bay
Ha Long Bay
Liuzhou, China
Liuzhou, China
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Adventure together — photo 18
You gotta fight!... For your right!... to paaaaartay! (A work all-nighter chosen on the perfect night, by accident!).
You gotta fight!... For your right!... to paaaaartay! (A work all-nighter chosen on the perfect night, by accident!).

Keep Traditions together

Missions: Sheppards dinners on Christmas Eve and epic homemade Halloween costumes every year.

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Learn together

Mission: Support our aspiring artist.

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Remember together

Mission: Make an extra-deliberate effort reconnecting with our China roots through family members we see less often.

Speaking to ancestors by name and performing a traditional Chinese ceremony.
Speaking to ancestors by name and performing a traditional Chinese ceremony.
Interviewing the last remaining grandparent over lunch for the biography we wrote for her.
Interviewing the last remaining grandparent over lunch for the biography we wrote for her.
Visiting the ancestral home in rural Guangxi during a holiday focused on heritage. Photo taken after thousands of firecracker explosions.
Visiting the ancestral home in rural Guangxi during a holiday focused on heritage. Photo taken after thousands of firecracker explosions.
Visiting ancestor graves is something we do many times on each China family visit.
Visiting ancestor graves is something we do many times on each China family visit.

Serve together

Mission: Sell dumplings to raise money for an elephant sanctuary. (We later discovered a different non-profit making a greater impact saving Cambodian lives from lingering landmines — and donated the money to them instead.)

Serve together — photo 1
Depositing the $200 raised from dumpling sales in Apopo's donation box.
Depositing the $200 raised from dumpling sales in Apopo's donation box.
These African rats are the world's largest rats and can be trained to detect underground landmines.
These African rats are the world's largest rats and can be trained to detect underground landmines.
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Work together

Mission: Spend the week at Grandmother's beach house curating the most impressive clay baby collection ever assembled.

Searching millions of rocks on the beach every day for a week straight!
Searching millions of rocks on the beach every day for a week straight!
What is this — a girl with pigtails and a bun on top? Big Hero 6 robot? Bouncer?
What is this — a girl with pigtails and a bun on top? Big Hero 6 robot? Bouncer?
Nursing mothers
Nursing mothers
Sperm whale
Sperm whale
Thresher shark
Thresher shark
Seals balancing balls on their noses
Seals balancing balls on their noses
Platypus
Platypus
Sea lion
Sea lion
Kiwis
Kiwis
Manatee family
Manatee family
Hand grenade
Hand grenade
Penguin family
Penguin family
Lemons
Lemons
Spirits
Spirits
Rock spirit (and no, we did not paint this — those are barnacle remnants, as we found them)
Rock spirit (and no, we did not paint this — those are barnacle remnants, as we found them)
Birds
Birds
Alien creatures
Alien creatures
Creepy alien creatures
Creepy alien creatures
Peanuts
Peanuts
Swaddled babies in a nursery
Swaddled babies in a nursery
Coral
Coral
The whole collection (that we scattered back on the beach)
The whole collection (that we scattered back on the beach)
messengerThe channel
A candid still from filming — the family mid-mission, the camera just another object on the table.

The channel

Watch the missions in practice.

Real missions, on camera, in a real family's real week. This is where the demonstration lives — and where you'll see whether any of it actually holds up.