Patrol Family

Missions

Every mission is built the same way.

How a mission works

A mission breaks into targets, and each target breaks into tasks. During the week people browse, or think of something of their own — and then the family plans it and commits to it in council.

Work & Home · a few weeks · Service Campaign

Give on Purpose

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Targets

  1. Pick it, and check it out before you trust it
    • Choose a cause you actually care about, and say out loud why it matters to you
    • Find out where the money actually goes, who runs it, and whether they're trusted
    • Decide how much of your own money to give — based on what you found, not on the name
  2. Give it, and be able to say who it helped
    • Make the gift for real, from money you earned or saved, and keep the receipt
    • Find out who your gift actually helps
    • Tell the family the story in your own words — why this one, and what you hope it changes
  3. Earn a second gift, and give it unseen
    • Do the work to earn a second gift, separate from the first
    • Make that gift without announcing it — no post, no telling, no credit
    • Say afterward what it felt like to give when nothing came back

Every target is about a half-day’s work.

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Six mission categories

The catalog is a very large number of them, already worked out, so you’re never stuck having to come up with an idea.

AdventureFaith & MeaningFamilyIntellectServiceWork & Home

Adventure

Earn the Big Trip

A season · Earn-It · All bands — name a flagship trip, then earn it over a season of real work.

Faith & Meaning

Five Houses of Worship

A few weeks · Expedition · Coach — visit five, arranged ahead, one good question at each.

Family

Big-Kid, Little-Kid Patrols

A season · Buddy Project · All bands — every older kid paired with a younger one.

Intellect

Put a Robot on the Job

A few weeks · Maker Project · Coach — automate one nagging repetitive family task.

Service

Adopt a Trail

Ongoing · Service Campaign · Equip — your family's mile, under a real agreement.

Work & Home

Feed the Family on a Budget

A weekend · Hackathon · Equip — a fixed budget, a set number of dinners, feed the family well.

Pick a mission.

…Then seize the day!

Every task rolls up to a target, and targets to a mission.

Six mission categories

Adventure
Faith
Family
Intellect
Service
Work & Home

Adventure Mission

First Family Campout

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Targets

  1. Build your kit and skillsNextFamily
    • Show you can pitch and strike the tent in daylightNext
    • Everyone owns one camp job
    • Pack the campbox from a checklist
  2. Backyard shakedownFamily
    • Sleep a full night outside at home
    • Fix what went wrong with the gear
  3. Pick and book the real spotFamily
    • Choose a first-timer-friendly campground
    • Reserve it and check the season and weather
    • Kids can plan the camp games and the night hike
  4. Camp for realFamily
    • Make camp before dark
    • Cook dinner and breakfast outside
    • Run the campfire night — stories, stars, s'mores
    • Leave no trace
  5. Debrief and go againFamily
    • Everyone names a best moment and one fix
    • Book campout number two before the gear's put away
Proof · Raising high-agency kids creates lasting memories.

Turn family life into a shared adventure.

Adventure together.

Adventure Mission: Curate the most impressive clay-baby collection ever assembled at great grandmother's beach house.

Searching millions of rocks on the beach every day for a week straight!
Searching millions of rocks on the beach every day for a week straight!
What is this — a girl with pigtails and a bun on top? Big Hero 6 robot? Bouncer?
What is this — a girl with pigtails and a bun on top? Big Hero 6 robot? Bouncer?
Nursing mothers
Nursing mothers
Sperm whale
Sperm whale
Thresher shark
Thresher shark
Seals balancing balls on their noses
Seals balancing balls on their noses
Platypus
Platypus
Sea lion
Sea lion
Kiwis
Kiwis
Manatee family
Manatee family
Hand grenade
Hand grenade
Penguin family
Penguin family
Lemons
Lemons
Spirits
Spirits
Rock spirit (and no, we did not paint this — those are barnacle remnants, as we found them)
Rock spirit (and no, we did not paint this — those are barnacle remnants, as we found them)
Birds
Birds
Alien creatures
Alien creatures
Creepy alien creatures
Creepy alien creatures
Peanuts
Peanuts
Swaddled babies in a nursery
Swaddled babies in a nursery
Coral
Coral
The whole collection (that we scattered back on the beach)
The whole collection (that we scattered back on the beach)

Remember together.

Faith Missions: Honor where we come from — Sheppards dinners on Christmas Eve, and deliberate trip to reconnect with our China roots through the family we see less often.

Our Sheppards dinner on Christmas Eve.
Our Sheppards dinner on Christmas Eve.
Speaking to ancestors by name and performing a traditional Chinese ceremony.
Speaking to ancestors by name and performing a traditional Chinese ceremony.
Interviewing the last remaining grandparent over lunch for the biography we wrote for her.
Interviewing the last remaining grandparent over lunch for the biography we wrote for her.
Visiting ancestor graves, something we do many times on each China family visit.
Visiting ancestor graves, something we do many times on each China family visit.

Create family memories.

Family Missions: Epic homemade Halloween costumes, every single year.

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Learn together.

Intellect Missions: An award-winning lego robotics team, a school acceptance, and supporting our aspiring artist through museum visits.

Awarded the most innovative lego robotics team (ceremony held at the Sam's Club HQ).
Awarded the most innovative lego robotics team (ceremony held at the Sam's Club HQ).
Celebratory dinner for Lincoln's acceptance into the best private school in the state.
Celebratory dinner for Lincoln's acceptance into the best private school in the state.
Serene above a month of her illustrations.
Serene above a month of her illustrations.
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Make a difference together.

Service Mission: Sell dumplings to raise money for an elephant sanctuary. (We later discovered a different non-profit making a greater impact saving Cambodian lives from lingering landmines — and donated the money to them instead.)

Elephant sanctuary for which the kids chose not to donate their raised $200.
Elephant sanctuary for which the kids chose not to donate their raised $200.
Depositing the $200 raised from dumpling sales in Apopo's donation box.
Depositing the $200 raised from dumpling sales in Apopo's donation box.
These African rats are the world's largest rats.
These African rats are the world's largest rats.
These rats are trained to detect underground landmines (for removal).
These rats are trained to detect underground landmines (for removal).

Work together.

Work & Home Missions: Entrepreneurial missions led to a highly successful lemonade stand for Lincoln, a cake business Serene runs, and then a handyman apprenticeship for Lincoln.

Beaming with pride from their lemonade stand earnings.
Beaming with pride from their lemonade stand earnings.
Serene with a cake she baked and decorated herself.
Serene with a cake she baked and decorated herself.
Lincoln working on a stone retaining wall.
Lincoln working on a stone retaining wall.
Lincoln digging during his handyman apprenticeship.
Lincoln digging during his handyman apprenticeship.

How missions are organized

The same mission is filed four ways, so a family can find the one that fits the week they actually have.

Shape

A weekend expedition and a season-long pact ask different things of a family.

Expedition
Go somewhere, come back changed. A trip with an objective.
Advancement
A ladder of skill with a real standard to meet at the top.
Seasonal Pact
A promise the family keeps, repeated, for a whole season.
Maker Project
Build a real thing that didn't exist before.
Service Campaign
A sustained push aimed outside your own family.
Earn-It
Work for money, and learn what money does next.
Hackathon
One short all-hands sprint at a single thing.
League
Compete on a schedule, against people who are trying too.
Mastermind
A small group that meets to push each other along.
Buddy Project
Two kids working a project together.

Time

The catalog knows the difference between a drive and a year.

A driveA weekendA few weeksA seasonOngoingMulti-year

Who it’s for

Either
runs alone or alongside other families
Single-family
written for one household
Shared
written to run with other families
Solo
one kid, on their own

Agency stage

Where your kid is, by age, and what your job is there.

Carry · 0–3
They ride in your pack. Every input and rhythm is you.
Guide · 4–7
They walk behind you down whatever trail you pick — so pick many.
Equip · 8–11
They range ahead, within sight, off your exact path.
Coach · 12–15
They take point. You fall back in the column.
Advise · 16–18
They lead their own patrol. You're the outfitter — on call, not in command.

Where missions have taken us

Great Sand Dunes — the family on the dunefield at dusk.
Summit Star Dune
Black Canyon of the Gunnison — the kids at the river with packs on.
Descend the Black Canyon
Dinosaur National Monument — the canyon and the river far below.
Explore Dinosaur National Monument
Olympic — the kids on the ridge above the snowline.
Hike Hurricane Ridge High Country in Olympic National Park
North Cascades — the family at an alpine lake below the snow.
Hike to Blue Lake in North Cascades National Park
Old-growth forest — a kid walking a fallen trunk.
Explore Mount Rainier

Reading the catalog is free and always will be. If you’d rather run one with help —

Running a Patrol Family

Your family’s rhythm, at a glance.

One screen for how your family is really running — how each member is doing with key routines that you want to track, the family’s rhythm with daily tallies and weekly councils, and how your mission completion activity has been going.

The Patrol Family app Home dashboard — pinned routines, the family rhythm (Nightly Tally, councils), and Mission Balance across the six categories.

Pinned routines are important ones for which you are specifically working, which is why they’re on the top row. People can only improve a few habits at a time.